I never regretted marrying away. Just life can not go down will regret the original not sensible. When you cry, you will know the bitter marriage! Young people these days, it's easy to get hot, after all, he hasn't experienced this. But please be careful to marry far away! When you are young, you do not listen to your mother, when you are a mother, you have a deep understanding that no matter what kind of choice you have regrets, it is a pity that you can not accompany your parents, and it is a pity that you have lost your love life. If you marry in Xiamen, help your parents find a house, and live for a few months every year, perhaps it is good to do so.
It's always better to be close
Weekends and parents eat dinner, children can play with relatives, parents sick can also take care of in time, the truth is the predecessors of the blood and tears experience if you want to marry people not far from your parents to settle down, home no worries no worries to determine later will not go back to his hometown development, do not worry about marrying a classmate of mine married in Jiangxi, now have not come back, because of the epidemic, The old man in the hospital can not come back to the province what good? Far and cold, traffic developed that is also bluffing, there are a few self-driving? Or a plane? Or high-speed rail? The ticket price is so high that when it comes to returning home, it will feel that it does not want to toss, although the transportation is convenient and it will take a lot of time. A year back to do absolutely can not marry other cities in the province have to consider the best not, do not marry far away. Ya-ya said it very well. Would rather two people live together in a new city, do not marry your mother far away for your own good, if the other party has money that doesn't matter, can charter the kind of… Otherwise, the only daughter married is really not to go without you this daughter will regret listening to her mother's words is the true truth, I grew up a few far married can be basically unhappy more from the perspective of parents to think about it, in this world only the parents of their love is the most selfless, eternal, everything else is floating clouds. Far marriage is a big gamble. Far marriage is to meet the selfish parents and give up their own happiness. But there is no independent people marry where there is a risk of regret, it is best not to marry, but there are eight women for your good name point. Don't stop me! I'll be your live-in son-in-law, and that'll solve the problem!
Not when you're young, but when you're middle-aged, you'll understand why
One of my Cousins, Longyan married Quanzhou, now settled in Xiamen Island, or regret! Far from my parents, I feel regret… When you get old, you must have the same idea. In fact, when you get married for more than 5 years, you will find that marriage is wealth, rice, oil and salt, material security can be combined basically and who has the same accept reality, not so much romance, far away from home, there is something you do when both sides can not take care of each other, at least in the province Or settle in the province what is filial piety is to accompany in the knee most of the far married will regret that the problem comes, how far to marry called far married? Economic strength is everything, distance is not a problem. When you get married, you will understand your parents' pains and people tell you that marrying far away is a big gamble, and the probability of losing is very high. Even if the man lives in your city, it is a distant marriage. Let's not talk about a fly drop to see the family in a few hours, look at the epidemic, my child hasn't seen her grandmother in years. If it is a distant marriage + parents do not agree. Break it before it's too late. If your parents don't agree, it's probably because the man doesn't deserve you. Whether poor or far away or ugly, if the other party is good enough for you, parents will not disagree. Those parents do not agree to marry, and finally end up tired, N years later scolded their original head into the water do not marry far away, unless your home or the South is a completely not bad money master (the reason is more complex, not to say). When you are young, you will understand why when you reach middle age, and it is too late to regret it. I'm not fooling you. If they all live in Xiamen, the boy is just from outside his hometown, this is not a distant marriage. Far marriage is tantamount to a thousand miles walk alone, and the fate of the parents from now on if there is no, desperate in a foreign land exactly need how many tears to change, only hit the south wall of the people know. How can there be so many mutual help, all are pickled by fuel, rice, oil and salt to completely recognize themselves. New fish story, do not support the far marriage how to be far married? The man is from other provinces, but settling down in Xiamen, is it a distant marriage? Or are parents only allowed to marry people from the same village?
When you are in love, love is intoxicating
You think it's all about him being good for you, and maybe others. So you think that the parents who have been with you now such a separation request makes you stressed, family kidnapping love. You feel like your life is in control, and I understand that feeling, and they're just saying it right out loud. You think about it from another Angle, don't think about your parents, you think you are really married in the future will be good, before the network is not so fancy, so many people can not really understand what is the matter of two families, now what little red book Tiktok, you see, the plot comes from life. So many people advise you, are experienced, know that after listening to your mother will not regret your mother is right your mother is right your mother is right if it is to go to Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, the other party conditions are good, you can consider. If it is to go to a small city, I advise you not to go, each place is different. My wife is Fujian Longyan, I am from other provinces, where we are a small city, but my home is in the urban area, not so bad customs and rules. We finally settled in Xiamen, now back home, I do not adapt myself. If you're not particularly good with people, I don't think you should go. Ah oh ~ The user has entered the small black room to rest due to violations… Listen to her quickly break, there is a choice ah oh ~ the user has entered the small black room to rest because of violations… It is best not to marry around a few far married are not very good you can buy a house before marriage in Xiamen, you marry freely in other provinces, you have assets, back to rely on. Far married women are usually very selfish, only think about themselves and do not think about their families, such people are useless your mother was right! Experienced people tell you that it is very bitter to marry far away. You all say that it is not good to marry far away, which is a little small. When people come to the world, they must always read more books, engage in some professions, and make some contributions to the society and the country, so that they will not waste their lives, whether they are men or women. When you reach that level, it's okay to take your parents with you or buy them a house nearby. Life is my parents gave birth to me, I am around them filial piety, can not leave home, for these things try to worry about making choices, I will not say what. Better listen to your mother. I came to Xiamen from other provinces, and when my mother died, I didn't make it back to see her for the last time.
When Dad died, there was a pandemic and he couldn't even make it to the funeral
Although the plane is very convenient now, when you really need you, you can not wait for them for the first time, leaving a lifelong regret. My wife Yingtan I sincerely regret to go back for two years once I grew up small, Jiangxi, her wife Zhejiang, her wife is also the only daughter, I know that they have the New Year, married until now is, take turns, there is no contradiction, I dare not ask, settled in Shanghai. There is a kind of distant marriage, in which both husband and wife marry far away, and both husband and wife live in a third place. Now there are many such, both sides have left their hometown in different places to start a family life. Net red Ya Ya is, her husband Jiangxi, Ya Ya Mudanjiang, settled in Xiamen life, but Ya Ya's heart knot did not find a local Xiamen, in fact Ya Ya lives very happy, life can not be perfect, Ya Ya has regrets, so use personal experience to persuade not to marry far away.