Experience to cultivate the heart, clear reason and practice

Originally, I thought that I had been practicing for so many years, and I was very focused in front of things.
Last week, I planned to fast for seven days. On the third afternoon, my sister called me from home to say that my father had fainted suddenly, but he was awake again. As soon as I heard this, my heart immediately became uneasy, and I was restless and upset. At that time, I felt that these years of heart cultivation was so unbearable.
Mr. Yang Ming said: It is easy to break the thief in the mountain, but difficult to break the thief in the heart.
Relatives, are in the heart.
Wish the elder brother, repair Zhengguo, study Wang Yangming, powerful!
How hard it is to choose someone to die
How difficult it is to choose someone to die!
The secret to a white head together is probably: make do.
First, the outlook on life and values have been stereotyped, and it is difficult to change for anyone. Couples who want to merge are like looking for a needle in a haystack.
Second, there are eye edges. You can't live together if you look at each other and feel nothing. Look right in the eye, no matter what you look like.
Third, be compatible. Regardless of financial conditions, relationships, etc., you have to be like each other and appreciate each other, including their quirks. Those who are similar in character should be icing on the cake, and those who complement each other should be tolerant of each other.
Fourth, to live. This is much more subtle and complex. For example, some like cooking do not like washing dishes, some do not like doing housework, some like cleaning but do not like folding clothes, some do not eat Onions and some love to eat garlic… We have to start all over again.
It is right, for us middle-aged people, marriage is no longer considered gender and external, can be together to live, mainly spiritual level, people to middle age, need is to have a companion, need is two together heart not tired, each other can have a support.
A down-to-earth post!
Life is hard enough, why not find someone who is comfortable with you? Are you trying to screw with yourself? Be kind to yourself and find someone you can talk to and live with is right.
Easy, easy to talk to. That's a lot to ask. Easy to say, to find such a really not easy.
It's all right. It's too late. Let it go. As the old saying goes: If you have a heart to plant a flower, it will not blossom. Cherish the moment, live a good life, and let the rest be natural, and the fate will come naturally.
Fate is heaven, part is man.
All want to find a young and beautiful, not willing to live up to themselves, it will slowly find the fate!
Yes, there is no heart self-injury, there is no dark melancholy! Fate to cherish the edge, edge scattered with the edge, do not force, let nature take its course.
Love heaven and respect people, follow all sentient beings.
I'm 49, 39 divorced, and I've been single for 10 years now, and I'm tired. Yes, it is. It's hard to find the right one
It is not difficult to settle, it is rare to be able to pass their own psychological that at the same time, like me with the "king fried" old woman, in some people's eyes is must have their own rations, free door-to-door to do bed nanny, he can accept is a great gift! On what grounds, right?
My little sister, one year older, must remember to rely on their own, middle-aged to find a partner, many are trying to find a companion to each other but not pull down their own. When you say king bomb, do you mean with a son? How many men are willing to raise a child these days? Even when I met a man with a teenage son, I thought it didn't matter because I love kids. But my friend said I was too naive, stepmother is difficult, and his own mother is too free to care for him why should I bring up a child and drag someone else's child? I don't totally approve of her, but I do have concerns. Therefore, a woman with a child must rely on her own, otherwise mother and son are rarely respected, and the child will be regarded as a drag.
It's another thing to meet a man who loves you so much. But the reality is harsh, don't expect too much.
You are absolutely right! It is better to withdraw from the net, in the red dust to take care of yourself and your family, live your own life, it is possible to meet better people, knot a better edge!
Everyone be themselves. Degree him.
The world will be better when you get better.
Everyone !!!!! Tough!
This above is not only a region of ah, a lot of areas are sometimes suitable, but too far away from the people are few